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Retiring in Style: Get Ready to Refire Your Life
Retirement is often seen as the finish line but at ithrive31, we see it as a launching pad. It’s the moment you get to take all the wisdom, experience, and relationships you’ve built and channel them into the life you want now. This is your time to think beyond “what I’m leaving” and focus on “what I’m stepping into.” Whether you crave travel, creative projects, deeper family connections, or new ways to serve your community, this season is about creating purpose and joy on y
Sep 8, 20252 min read
Life Transitions: Finding Yourself Again When Your Kids Take Their Next Big Step
There are certain milestones in parenthood that bring up a mix of emotions. Watching your child walk into their first day of kindergarten with a tiny backpack or loading the car to move your teenager to college can be a bittersweet blend of pride, joy, and a little sadness. These moments are big changes, not only for your kids, but for you. When so much of your daily routine, purpose, and even your sense of identity has been tied to the role of “parent,” it can feel differen
Sep 8, 20252 min read
Veering Off the Paved Path
I’ve never considered myself a risk taker. I like the familiar, the routine, the things I can count on. I tend to stay close to what I know—where it’s comfortable and predictable. For a long time, my walks followed the same paved paths near my home. They became my ritual, quiet time to clear my head, soak in the sunshine, and reconnect with myself and with God. There’s something grounding about being among the trees. I often look up and feel a deep sense of calm and perspec
Aug 13, 20252 min read
The Canyon, the Fire, and the Practice of Presence
Recently, we took a vacation to Colorado. Now, it’s not the first time we’ve been there—our son and daughter-in-law live in Colorado, so we spend a fair amount of time visiting. But we don’t always make it up to the mountains. This time, we did. We spent a few days in Glenwood Springs, tucked away in the canyon area, and it was breathtaking. It's a small, quaint community that follows the Colorado River, past the busyness of the popular mountain towns of Breckenridge, Dillon,
Aug 6, 20252 min read
Being Present: Now Is All There Ever Is
We’re over halfway through the year already…life has a sneaky way of rushing past us, doesn’t it? As we juggle daily tasks and check off our to-do lists, we may miss the tiny miracles happening all around us. But here’s the thing – when we pause and stay present in the here and now, the most ordinary moments suddenly sparkle with possibility! Let’s start with ourselves. When we look inward, we might notice how our whole body breathes a sigh of relief when we finally sit down
Jul 30, 20252 min read
Living Intentionally – Summer Edition
Summer is a great time for memories. One of my favorite memories from when my kids were little was something we called a “kidnap breakfast in the park.” The moms in our neighborhood coordinated a surprise morning adventure—we woke our kids up at the break of dawn, didn’t tell them where we were going, and took off on a stroll in their pajamas. As the sun was rising, we arrived at the park pavilion where orange juice, donuts, and games were waiting. They still talk about how f
Jun 4, 20252 min read
Building a Supportive Community
Hi there! Coach Miki here. There’s a lot happening in our world right now – both locally and globally. Building a supportive community of friends (and family), mentors, and coaches to navigate life’s challenges can be incredibly grounding and empowering. Friends are at the heart of community, bringing comfort, familiarity, shared history, and joy. Friendships are where mutual care grows strongest, and we can engage them by checking in regularly. A quick phone call or simple t
May 7, 20252 min read
Five Things About Money We Should All Learn in Kindergarten
I don’t talk about money a lot, and I certainly don’t claim to be a financial expert. However, as someone who believes in whole-person well-being, I know that finding fulfillment in our personal finances is something we all need to pay attention to. From an early age, our beliefs and behaviors around money take shape. That’s why the lessons we learn about money should start in Kindergarten and serve as guiding principles throughout our lives. Here are five fundamental truths
Mar 26, 20253 min read
Step into Your “Ordinary”
“I’m just ordinary.”That was the response I got when I asked a client to tell me about herself. I smiled and said, “Tell me more about your uniquely ordinary life.” As we talked, I quickly learned she wasn’t ordinary at all. She had incredible experiences, quirky traits she thought were flaws, and passions she had buried deep inside. It reminded me how often we underestimate ourselves. We look at the world around us—at the bold, the accomplished, the ones in the spotlight—and
Mar 19, 20252 min read


Reflect and Recharge — Your March Momentum
Hang tight — we’re heading into spring, a season of refreshing renewal! What energy do you want to bring into this new season? Now’s the perfect time to reflect on your first quarter. How are your goals shaping up? Do any need adjusting? Take a moment to align your next 31 days with intention and focus — grounded in our three core principles: Be intentional with your thoughts Be deliberate with your time and resources Be purposeful in how you treat your body Reflect on Q1 It
Mar 11, 20252 min read
Riding the Emotional Waves: Embrace, Understand, and Evolve
Lately, emotions have taken center stage in my life. Through events and situations that have misaligned with my values, I’ve experienced the full spectrum—anger, frustration, helplessness, and everything in between. As a lifelong learner, I’ve found myself reflecting deeply on emotional intelligence—not just as a coach, but as a student of life. What does it mean to truly understand and work with our emotions? Here are a few lessons I’ve been contemplating. 1. Separate Emotio
Mar 5, 20253 min read
Life Coaching and Time Management
Time is precious. And while we tend to focus on productivity, efficiency, and doing more with less, there’s also something to be said for dolce far niente, an Italian phrase that means “the sweetness of doing nothing.” At ithrive31, our three core principles provide a model for positive and healthy living. Core Principle #2 is, “Be deliberate with your time and resources.” This principle is about how we choose to spend our time. It’s about aligning our time and resources wit
Feb 26, 20252 min read
Unlock More Good Energy: The Power of Assuming Good Intent
Hi all, Coach Lauren here! Have you ever heard the phrase “assume good intent”? It seems a bit self-explanatory, but I wanted to take some time to dive into this phrase. This is a helpful lens for unlocking more good energy in our lives. What does “assume good intent” mean? Assuming good intent means taking a pause, giving folks the benefit of the doubt, and asking ourselves “What do I actually know about their intentions? What does this person believe is ‘good’, and what ‘g
Feb 19, 20252 min read
The Greatest Energy: LOVE — At Work, Home, and in Our Communities
At ithrive31, our mission is to bring good energy to the world. We aim to bring love and positive energy to the workplace, our homes, and our communities. We also believe that one of the most powerful forms of energy is love. As we celebrate love in all its forms this February, we are reminded of how this energy transcends beyond romantic relationships and can be infused into every part of our lives. Love in the Workplace Some might argue that love has no place in the workpl
Feb 11, 20253 min read
A Powerful Mindset Shift to Transform Your Year
Personal development is a journey, not a destination. It’s easy to forget this when we’re bombarded with new trends, advice, and practices promising to transform our lives. But what if the most important mindset shift isn’t about finding the “perfect” practice—but about embracing ourselves as beautiful and evolving works-in-progress? Recognize That We’re Learning as We Go Life is a continual process of learning and discovery. As we explore personal growth, we often try new p
Feb 5, 20252 min read
Intersections of Life Coaching and Mindfulness
How often do we allow ourselves time to fully arrive into a space? As we rush from place to place or meeting to meeting, a gentle reminder that mindfulness practices can help us get settled and better prepare for what’s next. As a life coach and teacher, I’ve found that incorporating simple mindfulness practices can help me be more present. And in sharing these methods with clients and students, I recognize we can all carve out a few moments to fully transition and get ground
Jan 22, 20252 min read
Rediscovering Your Smile
At ithrive31, we believe in empowering individuals to live with intentionality, purpose, and confidence. Through our unique 31-day approach, we help clients uncover what matters most, set actionable goals, and create meaningful change in their lives. Heather Lilienthal’s inspiring story is a testament to the transformative power of this process. Here, Heather shares her journey of rediscovery and finding her smile again. Finding My Smile with ithrive31 By Heather Lilienthal L
Jan 15, 20253 min read
Thriving in 2025: Embrace the Power of Intentional Living
And just like that, we’ve turned the calendar! Cheers to 2025! This is a beautiful time for renewed commitments, fresh starts, and a sense of optimism for what lies ahead. Use this energy to propel yourself forward—envision the future, plan for success, and dream about the goals you want to achieve this year. By harnessing this energy, you can fuel good momentum in your life. While the start of a new year brings excitement and optimism, it’s important to remember that we can
Jan 14, 20252 min read


Be Deliberate with Your Time and Resources: A Holiday Guide
Ah, the holidays—they come with all the glitter, glam, and often far too many commitments to squeeze into a single month. As you enter December, it’s the perfect time to lean into ithrive31’s Core Principle #2: Be deliberate with your time and resources. This principle is all about setting boundaries, making intentional decisions, and choosing what truly matters to you. During the holiday season, it can feel like you need to say yes to everything: the parties, the gift exchan
Dec 3, 20243 min read
True Self-Care: Nurturing Yourself from the Inside Out
Self-care is often sold to us as something external: a bubble bath, a massage, or perhaps a pedicure. While these indulgences can bring temporary relief, true self-care digs much deeper than the surface. It’s about caring for yourself from the inside out, addressing your thoughts, boundaries, and overall well-being. At ithrive31, we believe in the power of intentional self-care based on our three Core principles: Principle #1: Be Intentional with Your Thoughts Your mindse
Oct 21, 20243 min read
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