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To Help You Thrive at Work and at Home
Rediscovering Your Smile
At ithrive31, we believe in empowering individuals to live with intentionality, purpose, and confidence. Through our unique 31-day approach, we help clients uncover what matters most, set actionable goals, and create meaningful change in their lives. Heather Lilienthal’s inspiring story is a testament to the transformative power of this process. Here, Heather shares her journey of rediscovery and finding her smile again. Finding My Smile with ithrive31 By Heather Lilienthal L
Jan 15, 20253 min read
Thriving in 2025: Embrace the Power of Intentional Living
And just like that, we’ve turned the calendar! Cheers to 2025! This is a beautiful time for renewed commitments, fresh starts, and a sense of optimism for what lies ahead. Use this energy to propel yourself forward—envision the future, plan for success, and dream about the goals you want to achieve this year. By harnessing this energy, you can fuel good momentum in your life. While the start of a new year brings excitement and optimism, it’s important to remember that we can
Jan 14, 20252 min read
Unlock Sustainable Change with Swap-Based Goals
Hi all, Coach Lauren here! Have you ever thought about what types of goals set you up for success? It is the new year, and surely, many of us have New Year's resolutions on our minds. It is an unfortunate known fact, however, that these resolutions often do not last long; there’s even a “Quitter’s Day,” which falls on the second Friday of January, and research shows a significant amount of the population has already stopped their goal by that time. There are all sorts of tool
Jan 8, 20252 min read


Be Deliberate with Your Time and Resources: A Holiday Guide
Ah, the holidays—they come with all the glitter, glam, and often far too many commitments to squeeze into a single month. As you enter December, it’s the perfect time to lean into ithrive31’s Core Principle #2: Be deliberate with your time and resources. This principle is all about setting boundaries, making intentional decisions, and choosing what truly matters to you. During the holiday season, it can feel like you need to say yes to everything: the parties, the gift exchan
Dec 3, 20243 min read


Supplementing Grief with Gratitude
When you think of someone “grieving,” you probably picture someone mourning after the death of a loved one. And this is certainly a challenging and heartbreaking experience. But have you ever thought about how much we all “grieve” on a regular basis? A somewhat silly example: earlier this year, my family and I went on a trip to Belize. We had a wonderful time, and on the last day, I was in full-on “sad girl” mode because I didn’t want to leave. I went for a solo walk and sat
Nov 26, 20243 min read


3 Types of Listening
A powerful part of communicating is to let other people know we really listened and care about what they are saying. Below are 3 types of listening along with tips to consider… they may be especially helpful to keep in mind during upcoming holiday gatherings! The first is subjective. Everyday listening is usually subjective, and usually occurs when whatever is said is heard through the experiences of the listener and/or as it relates to the listener, e.g. answering based on h
Nov 19, 20242 min read


Trust Yourself: The Answers Are Within
In a world full of constant noise, advice, and endless streams of opinions, we often find ourselves looking outward for answers to life’s challenges. We seek validation from others, follow advice, and look for external solutions to problems that, deep down, we already know how to solve. The truth is, the answers we seek are often inside us, waiting to be uncovered. Trusting ourselves is not about ignoring others or isolating ourselves; it’s about quieting external noise long
Nov 13, 20242 min read


Navigating Together: Finding Space and Support Post-Election
At ithrive31, we understand that the recent election season may have brought forth a wide range of emotions and personal impacts. This period has often been challenging, with negativity surrounding us—whether through media, workplace conversations, or inner dialogues that may not always support our well-being. During this time, we want to remind you of ithrive31’s mission to bring positive energy to the world. Good energy includes giving yourself space to process your feeling
Nov 6, 20242 min read


Leadership Balance: Meeting Your Team's Needs While Managing Your Own Responsibilities
Leadership isn’t just about what you do for others; it’s also about managing your responsibilities. It’s a lot, and you’re not alone in feeling it! Supporting others starts with supporting yourself—but what if the work you are responsible for can’t be delegated? Consider Rachael, juggling an overflowing list of responsibilities that only she could manage, all while supporting a team that needed her guidance. She felt stuck, but she found a way through by taking a few key step
Oct 29, 20242 min read
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